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Thursday, December 12, 2013

Its worth fighting for..

So stepping away from twisted stuff, i finally decide to write this. If you thinking why, i so want to vent. Will it help, il let you know. Am i an expert at this?? nope , not a bit. Someone whom i know very closely is going through an emotional phase in their life, mainly separating from their partners. No amount of talking to either of them seems to resolve their issues that they have build up over the years . Lot of ego clashes, miscommunication, and truckloads of factors have contributed to their decision. I know one of them reads every post of mine, and i'm hoping for a miracle!!. Why??? because i love you two to bits together, and it breaks my heart to see what might possibly happen.

Like i said earlier, i'm not even close to the ideal individual to give advice on what you should do, or how to avoid such a situation. however, i'm gonna do just that.

Never stop Flirting/Loving :  Yes i know it sounds over the top romantic!! But its not. Taking out time in between your busy schedules, and showering each other with affection like you did earlier is definitely going to reignite passion and memories. It can be as simple as holding hands, a peck on the cheek, watching your favourite movie. Choose your pick.

Fall in love again with your Partner :  I agree he/she may not look the same. Receding hairlines,wrinkling, increasing sizes are all inevitable. Learn to love this new person, fall in love with them again. more than the way they look now, think of the way they make you look with that small touch or that glance. Yeaa!!, that sure works :)

Nobody is Perfect : Dont try to fix your partner, just because your friends partner looks a particular way. Your Partner is your Partner, accept them as they are , as they change. Its not your job to fix someone, its not your Job to ensure how he/she should eat, sit , talk, walk , laugh!!.. Cmon, breathe, notice the sound of her laughter , see the way his eyes twinkle when he catches yours :).

Limit the blame game :  You are solely responsible for your happiness. Stop blaming each other for taking the "Happiness" out of each others life. Stop blaming each other when you fight. All of those words remain in the heart for a long time. I know its not easy to control ones temper, but it is to control one's tongue. Acknowledge if you are at fault, and all those words will erase magically.

Be stupid/kiddish/silly/idiotic : Remember the things you used to do initially, do them over, attuning to your partners changed sensibilities. Stop pretending that you are carrying all the burden in the world. Leave the baggage aside, go snuggle up, hug each other. Do things that make you both happy.

Give each other the required space : Dont smother each other. Do your own things. Have your own social circle. It will help you both unwind your individual stresses . Don't be super clingy. Appreciate what your partner does, compliment them .

Dont take your fights to the bed : try resolving your issues before you hit the sack. Never keep it for tomorrow. Tomorrow will just add on to the hurt. Resolve it before it dissolves you.

Relationship is never about a "Happily ever after". it needs work, commitment , love , and loads of patience. It aint easy , but its definitely super worth it .

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Guess who came along??? LIEBSTERRRRR !!!! yayyyy!!!

First of all, let me Super congratulate Sreeja on winning the Gold at Blogadda, and also for the Liebster. Thank you sooo much for nominating me. This has made my day super Fabsome. I had written an old post about Liebster , so for the inquisitive souls, quench your thirst here.

Now to head on to the rules :

è Tag back to the person who tagged you
è Answer the questions posed by him/her/them
è Tag 11 ( some say 10 ) more bloggers , with no more than 200 followers. (I choose to differ here, my nominations will be purely because i love reading what you post)
è Post 11 ( some say 10 )  Questions for them to answer !!
è And tell them that they have been tagged , so that they continue the chain !! :-)

Answering Sreejas 11 questions.. 

1.      Describe yourself in a perfect sentence of five words :P
Tinu is an Impulsive Person
2.      Imagine you are stranded in an isolated island. What’s the one thing you’ll miss the most ?
my Bottle of water
3.      What / who is the first thing / person you think of when you hear the word, “Intelligent” ?
my 1 year old nephew - DUDA
4.      What’s your greatest insecurity ?
my greatest insecurity would be to not being able to do all what i want to do 
5.      Which quality do you admire the most in your parents ?
6.      Your favourite writer and your favourite of his books
I dont have A fav writer, as of now, i love "The Surviors Club" by Lisa Gardner

7.      If you could become a cartoon character for a day, who would you choose to be ?

8.      If you are asked to change three things about the world, what would they be ?
11 qs to be answered for liebster, 11 qs to ask, and mmm Tolerance towards change 
9.      Love, for you, means….. ?
That feeling that you get when your mum feeds you food.Love is Simple, yet has to be expressed. :)
10.  What makes your best friend, your best friend ?
The fact that they LOVE me , inspite of my shortcomings (even i would not have loved myself)
11.  What’s your take  - A forest trek or a Halloween party ?
Definitely a Forest TREK, love adventures, as long as water aint involved :).

moving onto my FAVORITE Super Bloggers ( A bit of a dilemma, cz i haven't been blogging for some time).

However, here are my all time favourites :

sadiya merchant for those who have read her blog, you guys know whyyy herr!!! and those who haven't .. you guys need to just click click ;)

Times change ,but definitely not the quality of blog posts. They have been always fabbbb

Sid, i love the way how this wanderer gets you enticed with all his posts.

PeeVee i dont need to say as to why i love her, we all do, dont we??

SRI For always scaring the shit outta everyone.For frankly spooking, and for everything that evokes a scary laughter.

mrigank I love very post of his, they are hilarious, in your face and so outright interesting.

Crystal has always been my favourite. Any award that i could give to someone would be incomplete without her in it.

kappu my blog-a-ton company. She never ever ever writes a blahhhh post!! i donno how you manage that

celestial rays The blog says it allll

Neeraj writes his heart out and its very evident in all his posts :)

Congratualationsss guys, yes i have been playing mr. India, for long , but i promise il get back to being me :)

Now guys here are the 11 questions for uuuu (drumrollsssssss and maybe some honking)

1) A blogger who makes you think "why didn't i think of it before"?.
2) A celebrity you would love to be with on a deserted island
3) Why do people use the phrase "Slept like a baby", when babies wake up every two hours?
4) If a turtle looses its shell, is it Naked, homeless or both ??
5) If i told you , that everything i tell you is a lie, was that a lie?
6) Whats the biggest lie you have got away with
7) if you could be an animal what would you be and why?
8) If you had to rob a blog of its contents, which blog would you choose and why?
9) If yo could paint your blog, what color would it be, and why?
10) Which fictional character would you love to be and why?
11) If you try to fail and you succeed , which have you done ?

Have fun guyssss :) ....

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